Fighting all the time is tiring too.

It's not that we're not thinking about our sexuality, but everything slows down this time of year. We get caught up in conglomerate consumerized gift buying, because although it's money sucking monopoly of the Americans at it's finest and we know this, it's also a time for spending time with loved ones, catching up with old friends, bonding with co-workers, cheer and tidings. It's not that our political agendas have been turned off, it's just that some of us extreme left thinkers are also slightly family oriented with sentimental hearts, and we do care about our loved ones, and sometimes we need to rest our minds, our hearts too. Fighting all the time is tiring too.

And if the holidays are breaking your bank or your spirit (or both), remember it's the thought that counts. Just being there with some of these people in your life without spending a lot of money says a lot. (If they don't think it's enough, well then maybe it's a good time to take a break from them.) Do what you can, don't expect from others what you can't give back.

And for all the yucky feelings that come about this time of year, go with them. Spend some time alone with those feelings and accept them as part of your unique being.

So from all of us here at AboutBisexuality.blogspot.com, we wish you a very merry holiday.

I've got this energy beneath my feet
like something underground's gonna come up and carry me,
I've got this sentimental heart that beats
but I don't really mind (and) it's starting to get to me
-The Killers' Sams Town